Why Set Apart?
Discover Clarity. Embody Peace. Live Free.
The Approach
At Set Apart Psychotherapy, I help clients reconnect with their true identity and purpose using tools like CBT, DBT, EMDR, inner child healing, mirror work, and breathwork—tools that calm the nervous system, break generational cycles, and guide you back to the truth within… a truth that’s been there all along.
The Focus
I work with individuals, couples, and families healing from pain and trauma—often rooted in inner child wounds—that show up as anxiety, depression, identity struggles, or relationship challenges. My goal is to help you release the mental grip of the past and step into clarity, peace, and freedom.
The Difference
Set Apart is more than therapy—it’s a place of becoming. Here, healing is sacred, intentional, and transformative. Symptoms aren’t just managed—the truth is unearthed.. With science-backed tools and soul-rooted practices, I help you regulate your nervous system, rewrite old narratives, and reconnect with who you were before the world told you otherwise. This is where clarity is reclaimed, peace is embodied, and freedom begins.
Services
Your healing journey is personal—and powerful.
At Set Apart, you'll find a thoughtfully curated range of holistic and evidence-based services, each designed to support your healing, growth, and personal transformation. These offerings include: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy · Trauma-Informed Care · DBT · EMDR · Inner Child Healing · Mirror Work & Identity Empowerment · Breathwork & Somatic Practices · Faith-Integrated Therapy · Integrative Approaches to Emotional and Spiritual Wellness
Individual Therapy
One-on-one sessions for adults facing anxiety, depression, trauma, identity exploration, or life transitions.
Healing begins when you feel seen
Couples Therapy
Build deeper emotional connection, repair trust, and communicate with compassion.
Growing stronger together
Single Parenting
Therapy for single mothers and fathers navigating the emotional, mental, and practical challenges of raising children alone. This space offers compassionate support for burnout, boundary setting, identity shifts, and healing from past relational or generational trauma.
You don’t have to carry it all alone
Family Therapy
Address intergenerational trauma, boundary issues, and improve family relationships through open, guided dialogue.Healing the whole system
About
Hi, I’m Tandrea Tarver — affectionately known as “Tan”
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist + Founder of Set Apart Psychotherapy, Inc.
I'm a soul-led Therapist with a warm heart, a deep laugh, and a calling to help people come home to themselves. Healing, to me, isn’t just about symptom relief—it’s sacred work. When you sit with me, therapy feels human, heart-centered, and whole. We go deep, but we do it gently… and sometimes with a little sass.
The Journey That Led Me Here
From a young age,
I carried an inner knowing: beneath the layers of laughter, tears, pain, and past time, there lives a truer, more authentic version of who we really are. I’ve always been drawn to that place of wholeness—not just within myself, but within others too.
I often wondered,
If others, like me, carried the weight of the layers of life and still found the strength to keep going, how were they truly managing in the present? Was the residue of their past still rising to the surface? Or were they, like I had been, simply surviving it?
But for me,
Surviving wasn’t enough,
I became determined to thrive—and that’s when the journey truly began. Healing taught me,
That if my spirit was determined to keep going, then my mind had to come into alignment. That truth led me back to myself—and now, I help others do the same.
Not just to heal...
but to remember who they’ve always been.